LifeStream’s Leading Ladies

Therese Quinn, Nancy Altman and Deb Haley are three Jacksonville women who have arrived at the same exciting, life-changing destination by traveling very different paths.

Therese Quinn competed in Women’s U.S. Open Golf Championships and once owned a nationally ranked golf sales and marketing company. As an entrepreneur and business owner for the past thirty years, Therese has received top honors in the insurance industry. A widow with an interesting and varied background, Therese holds a Bachelor of Science degree in marketing management from Barry University in Miami and has been a leader in the fields of marketing and advertising. While her success in the world of business has been phenomenal, she once, while studying religion at Immaculata College, contemplated becoming a nun.

Nancy Altman has a Bachelor’s degree in Education with a minor in psychology from the University of Florida, and two Masters degrees in Counseling and in Social Administration. Her extensive career in education has often been in partnership with her husband, Dr. Jim Altman. As college professors, founders of the Mandarin Farm School and parents and educators of their own children, the Altmans are lifelong teachers and learners. She is a devoted mother of three and grandmother of six.

Deb Haley was an Air Force Brat. After growing up in the military, she chose to stay by pursuing a career as an officer in the United States Air Force. Deb rose to the rank of Lt. Colonel during an illustrious career that spanned nearly a quarter of a century. She spent three years at the Pentagon and won numerous awards, including the Al Gore Reinventing Government “Hammer Award.” During her career she pursued college degrees, earning a Bachelor of Science in math education from North Carolina State University and a Master’s Degree in Management from Webster University. Deb, who was a stern, structured Squadron Commander for many years, now luxuriates in newfound freedom.

Three charming and diverse women who already possessed all the outward trappings of success, Therese, Nancy and Deb agree that their lives were not completely successful until they experienced their first LifeStream Success Seminar. Today they devote their energies to sharing the LifeStream adventure with others.

“The combination of their life experiences and the concepts learned through LifeStream has made them three of the most powerful women in Jacksonville,” says Bill Burns, a Jacksonville Beach small business owner who credits LifeStream with saving his business and giving him new direction in life.

When 17th Century Poet John Donne wrote No Man is an Island, Entire of Itself, he would have been gratified to realize that his prophetic words would remain real and fresh four centuries later. “It’s true; no man is an island,” says Therese Quinn. “We are all in relationships — with ourselves and with others. As we learn to trust each other and achieve greater balance in our lives, our boundaries disappear and we grow beyond our greatest expectations.”

As a facilitator for LifeStream Success Seminars, Quinn is a living reflection of Donne’s words — connected physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with the rest of the world. While she travels nationally and internationally facilitating Lifestream Success Seminars, Quinn’s insurance agency thrives and grows. “I never stop learning and growing,” says the energetic facilitator. Staying full of excitement about the future is another quality Therese shares with Nancy and Deb. “It was through my late husband, Jim Quinn, founder of LifeStream, that I learned to take charge of my life, and meet and exceed my goals,” says Therese.

“We took Therese to her first LifeStream seminar in 1984,” remembers Nancy Altman, now President of the Board of Directors for LifeStream Jacksonville, Inc. “My husband, Jim, and I had taken the seminar at the suggestion of a friend. That’s how it works. Once you’ve experienced it, you want to pass it on to people you love. Jim and I were thrilled to introduce Therese to LifeStream. What we didn’t know at the time was that we were introducing her to her future husband, Jim Quinn, as well.”

For many years after that fateful meeting, Therese joined her husband in facilitating LifeStream Success Seminars. Since her husband’s death, Therese has become President and Co-Owner, with Dr. Jim Altman, also a facilitator, of LifeStream Learning Systems, Inc. In 1999, Quinn, the Altmans and the Board of Directors expanded the vision by establishing LifeStream Jacksonville, Inc., a 501C(3) professional organization devoted to education and service in the community. “LifeStream has always been about empowering the individual and building leadership,” says Nancy. “With the many service projects performed by LifeStream Jacksonville, Inc. seminar graduates on an ongoing basis, we are seeing how it can become a template for positive change throughout the community. It’s exciting!”

Paying it forward is one of the basic concepts of LifeStream. The term itself is based on Catherine Ryan Hyde’s book Pay It Forward, in which the twelve-year-old hero, Trevor, devises a plan to change the world by helping three people. When asked how they could return the favor, Trevor requests they help three more people — making it nine who would eventually pay it forward — and so on, multiplying good deeds until the world became a better place. Recently the book was made into a movie with Helen Hunt and Kevin Spacey.

“My cousin, Jack Burns of San Francisco, paid it forward for me when he attended a LifeStream Seminar in Jacksonville over a year ago and paid for my wife, Diane, to go,” says Bill. “After 9/ll, my business was failing and I had lost confidence. Diane was supportive and loving, but I was at a really low point. I had so many questions. I felt like it was me against the world. LifeStream gave me the tools I needed not only to achieve both personal and business success, but to pay it forward.”

Among the community services sponsored by Lifestream seminar graduates are workshops for children at the Webb Center, Nights of Shelter at the I. M. Sulzbacher Center For the Homeless, Art Enrichment Programs for emotionally disturbed children in partnership with the Cummer and Duval County Schools and the Relay for Life sponsored by the American Cancer Society at Jacksonville University. Last year they were recognized as a National Point of Light.

Accredited by the State Board of Nurses and the American Association of Radiologic Technicians, LifeStream provides 29 hours of continuing education credits for nurses and radiologic technicians. Corporations like St. Vincent’s, BellSouth, Baptist Medical Center, the Federal Reserve Bank and DiscoverTec recognize the value of Lifestream’s seminars in enhancing the work habits of employees and improving the bottom line. Donny Lamey of DiscoverTec believes so strongly in the program that he pays for employees to attend LifeStream (all of the Basic and half of the Advanced seminar). “People who have been through Lifestream are successful, confident and charismatic,” he says. “They have good direction in life and are generally better able to answer life’s questions.”

About a year and a half ago, Deb Haley met a couple who had been working on their relationship through attending a LifeStream Success Seminar. Deb began volunteering in the LifeStream office, took the basic and advanced seminars and became a lifelong LifeStreamer. In June of 2002, Deb accepted the position as City Director for LifeStream Jacksonville, Inc., managing LifeStream’s day to day operations.
“It’s not about a lecture; it’s not any fluff stuff,” says Deb. LifeStream, according to its literature, focuses on responsibility, trust, balance, acceptance, social contribution, communication, honesty and commitment. Deb relates enthusiastically, “It’s a life experience that has helped me personally deal better with stress. In the military, life was very structured, there were few choices and there was constant pressure to conform. It was high-powered stress. That was all I knew, so when I retired in 1996, I noticed a major release of stress. All of a sudden, I had a tremendous amount of freedom and choice — I could choose my clothes, job and even where and how I’d live! It was freeing and frightening. With it came a new kind of stress that brought back old feelings with it. It was difficult to release feelings like ‘I’m afraid,’ or ‘I’m not good enough’ or ‘what if they don’t like me?’ LifeStream taught me to focus on these feelings and deal with them. It also gave me a new set of good friends that my nomadic life never allowed me to have.”

“The energy that the three of us bring to the table is joyful!” says Deb. “We respect each other and, together, we represent a very powerful, rich combination of qualities that makes for great synergy. Therese is a fascinating woman. She’s an athlete and an entrepreneur — a leader in every phase of her life. Nancy is wise, a true leader, determined to make a difference. She’s the matriarch — the wife, mother and grandmother — the heart of her home and our organization. Me? I’m an organizer and communicator. Each of us is passionate about the program.”

Passion is the word that comes to mind when any of these women talk about LifeStream. “It is a passion,” admits Deb. “We’re passionate about being involved in the transformation of human beings. We’re passionate about the continual learning process and our part in it. We’re passionate about giving people the tools they need to be the best they can be.”

“Agape love and Lifestream are synonymous,” says Nancy. “It’s the unconditional love that meets people where they are in life and helps them get in touch with their central core of original blessings. Everyone has it, but most people are so out of touch with their feelings that they have lost the ability to focus on it. Lifestream provides an intensely personal journey back to the incredible true self you were meant to be.”

“Lifestream is unique in that it integrates every learning modality,” says Therese. “It is a “whole-istic” approach to personal change that touches the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual inner being of each individual. By changing ourselves, we are changing the world — one person at a time.”

Susan D. Brandenburg
Freelance Writer

 

 

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